I don't think having-to-grow-up-hood is as necessary and inevitable as people pretend. I mean; I'm thirty and married and have a mortgage and a baby-on-the-way, and when I told my husband that I'd like to hire a giant paddling pool to give birth in, his first question was "How many rubber ducks will we need for a pool of that size?". We have our first wind-up frog already...